Your brain is the largest sex organ in your body (or in other words, can we stop with the size enhancing ads now?)

You may or may not know that we (Kristin and Alisha) have been making regular appearances on a Salt Lake City, Utah radio show and have affectionately been dubbed as “The Sex Girls” as we take calls and talk to people struggling with or curious about a variety of sex and intimacy issues.  Often we […]

How Failing at Cooking Helped My Sex Life

When I got married I had absolutely zero cooking skills — and that’s not an exaggeration.  Not to say that I was the only one cooking in my house, but compared to my husband’s contribution in this area, mine was absolutely dismal.  Being a competitive person by nature, I saw this as a challenge and […]

Psst! Virgins have sexual histories, too.

This seems to be a paradox right?  How can a virgin have a sexual history?  Well, it’s actually pretty easy.  Let’s start at the beginning: Think back to your childhood.  Did you ever see your parents holding hands? Kissing? Dancing or wrestling around?  Did they ever talk to you about sex and intimacy or was […]

“I don’t have a clue how to gain spiritual intimacy…”

One reader recently submitted this question:  “Ok, I get the physical, emotional and mental intimacies, but don’t really have a clue how to go about gaining spiritual intimacy with my spouse.  Any suggestions?” Let me just say from the very beginning that this reader is not alone.  This aspect of the Intimacy Pyramid (from ch. […]

Improving Our Intimacy with God

Disclaimer:  This blog post is a little personal.  I hope you’ll forgive me, but that fact is, God is personal. When I was 21 I was sent to a foreign country where I could barely speak the language, did not understand the culture, and was placed far away from any other English-speakers.  For two weeks […]

50 Shades of…huh?

So as a co-author of a sex and intimacy book I decided I needed to see what 50 Shades of Grey was all about — and since I was in Las Vegas at the time I decided there was never going to be a more appropriate venue for such a book. There’s a huge stack […]